A Nanny’s Guide to Age-Appropriate Chores for Toddlers

Toddlers love to help. Channel that enthusiasm by introducing age-appropriate chores that feel like play but build valuable life skills. Ask your nanny to involve your child in simple tasks like putting toys in bins, wiping spills, feeding pets, or sorting laundry. These “chores” should be quick, safe, and engaging—think of them as toddler-sized wins.

Routine is key. If cleaning up becomes a regular part of playtime, it starts to feel natural. Turn chores into a game: race the clock, sing a clean-up song, or celebrate with a high five. Use language like “You’re helping!” or “You did that all by yourself!” to reinforce pride and participation.

Tasks can evolve with age. At 2, it might be putting away blocks. At 3, matching socks or carrying their snack to the table. The goal isn’t perfection—it’s engagement. Your nanny should offer guidance and praise without redoing the work in front of the child.

Small tasks like these promote independence, fine motor skills, and a sense of responsibility. Plus, they create structure within your child’s day and offer moments of success. With your nanny’s support, chores become a joyful part of learning—not just a to-do list.